8 Sneaky Ways Your Push Energy Is Keeping Your Twin Flame Away

As we all know, push-energy is the number one enemy to the Twin Flame journey. While it can sometimes be obvious, host Elle Hari explains that fear has sneaky ways of disrupting our peace. In today’s episode, Elle discusses eight ways your push-energy might be keeping you from your Twin Flame. 

Just like any energy, the natural inclination of our push-energy is to continue to grow and expand. If we allow this energy to gain too much control, it will continue to push the Twin Flame further and further away. This is why it’s crucial that we actively work to drive any fear-based energy out of our lives. To do so, we must remember that nothing in the physical world connects us to our Twin Flames. Whether it be thoughts, feelings, emotions, obsessions or desires for a relationship, we cannot concede to aspects of the physical world. Instead, it is important to let go and allow our souls to guide us in the right direction.

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about stopping your obsessions and letting go of physical desires, so you can starve out the fear-based energy that is keeping you from your Twin Flame. 

Quotes 

• “Your push-energy is fear-based, it's addictive. And like any energy, its inclination is to grow and to expand, but we don't want this energy to do that. We want to actually starve it out so that it shrinks.” (01:52-02:08) 

• “When you have dreams of your Twin Flame, that is your fear-based push-energy sneaking in a feed while you are not awake and consciously aware of it.” (06:29-06:40)

• “What connects you with your Twin Flame are not physical things. So, feelings, emotions, thoughts are all physical, they are all created in the mind.” (08:20-08:33)

• “Any obsession is fear-based energy.” (13:57-14:00)

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Marriage, Monogamy & Boundaries

When it comes to having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, you may picture it being a monogamous relationship. While having this kind of relationship with your Twin Flame is possible, host Elle Hari explains that it will look different than what society defines monogamy to be. In today’s episode, Elle clarifies how the concepts of monogamy, boundaries and marriage apply to the Twin Flame journey.

Humans are not naturally monogamous creatures; rather, the concept was developed by the human mind to control and oppress people. Since this is a man-made idea, it is derived from physical, fear-based energy. So, if you desire a monogamous relationship with your Twin Flame, Elle explains that you are not coming from a place of love but rather one of fear and scarcity. Forcing conditions like marriage or monogamy onto your Twin Flame will only trigger your fear-based energy and push them away. Despite how we have been programmed, true monogamy can only exist between you and your Twin Flame because you are one soul. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the true meaning of monogamy and how to let go of all fear-based conditions, so you can truly love yourself and achieve a relationship with your Twin Flame. 

Quotes 

• “Monogamy came about as a way to actually oppress and control. How do I know this? Because humans are not a naturally biologically monogamous species.” (03:22-03:32)

• “Love is not monogamy. Monogamy comes from fear.” (04:54-04:57)

• “Marriage is being the same and being one, and that's you and your Twin Flame.” (07:38-07:44)

• “Twin Flames are the only two people that monogamy can actually occur with, but it can't come from the mind. You can't intend it with your mind because that'd be pushing your fear-based energy onto your Twin Flame. And then where would your Twin Flame go? They would pull away.” (08:09-08:28)

• “You can't set the boundary of monogamy and then also be with your Twin Flame. It won't happen because setting that boundary is not loving yourself.” (09:44-09:53)

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Nothing in the Physical World Means Anything

Do you spend a lot of time obsessing over what your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling? According to host Elle Hari, doing this is allowing your push-energy to get in the way of your success. In today’s episode Elle discusses why nothing in the physical world actually means anything.

Regardless of what it may feel like, whatever your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling is completely irrelevant because it is all related to the physical world. Everything in the physical world is temporary and, therefore, not real. The only thing that is real/permanent is your soul. The only reason this journey feels so overwhelming at times is because you are giving credit to your own fear-based energy’s judgments about what is going on around you Rather than allowing your feelings of anxiety to dictate your life , Elle explains that it is important to just ride it out and go with the flow, knowing that nothing is “bad” or “wrong.” Those are judgments created in our minds based on our own limitations and beliefs. In truth, everything is neutral, and any pain we feel is always caused by resistance to  (or judgment of) what is. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about why giving credit to anything of the physical world will slow down your journey and prohibit you from attaining a relationship with your Twin Flame. 

Quotes 

• “When your push-pull energy becomes activated, what happens is that it becomes very sensitive to other energies around you, especially energies in the universe.” (04:27-04:45)

• “Not everyone resonates with every energetic event.” (06:43-06:45)

• “Feel your feelings, do not repress them, and do not believe your thoughts. Any thought that accompanies feelings regarding your Twin Flame, don't judge them.” (08:11-08:21)

• “Whatever your Twin Flame says, thinks, feels or does is irrelevant. The only meaning that it has is what you give it. And that includes anything that comes into your physical world.”  (09:21-09:35)

• “When you judge your Twin Flame and what they're saying, thinking, doing or feeling as either good or bad, then it makes you feel good or bad. But most importantly, it's feeding your push energy.” (10:17-10:30)

• “When you put your focus on the physical form of Twin Flame, what are you doing? You're pushing your Twin Flame away.” (10:37-10:44)

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You and Your Twin Flame Are Never Separate

Do you ever feel isolated from your Twin Flame? While you may not have a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, host Elle Hari explains that it is impossible to be completely detached. In today’s episode, Elle discusses the idea that you and your Twin Flame are never separate. 

Even though at times you may be unable to touch or see your Twin Flame, Elle explains that your energetic field will always keep you connected. Rather than focusing on physical aspects, it is important to tap into your soul’s energy because it is the strongest force in the universe. When you connect with your soul, you allow yourself to vibrate on the same frequency as your Twin Flame. And for this reason, you can never truly be alone. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the universal law of oneness and how to detach yourself from physical desires, so you can transcend all dimensions and connect you to your Twin Flame. 

Quotes 

• “Your soul transcends space, distance, time and even dimensions.” (05:07-05:13)

• “Anywhere you go, your Twin Flame is going to go. Anything you do, your Twin Flame is going to be there. Why? Because you're in the same exact energetic field.” (06:46-06:53)

• “You're always together because your energetic field transcends all dimensions. So, you're never ever separated.” (07:19-07:29)

• “Everything and everyone is one because we are under the one energetic vibration of love. But each of us has our own unique frequency of that vibration that we share with nothing and no one else in the entire cosmos, except for our Twin Flame.” (11:06-11:23)

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The Twin Flame Journey Is Not About Romance or Sensationalism

Do you ever find yourself wishing your relationship with your Twin Flame would be as strong as the love in your favorite romance movie? According to host Elle Hari, this is the biggest misconception everyone has about the Twin Flame journey. In today’s episode, Elle discusses why the Twin Flame journey has nothing to do with romance. 

According to Elle, the sensationalization of romance in our society actually exists to trigger our fear-based energy. While it is possible to have a romantic connection with your Twin Flame, it will not look how it does in the media. Rather than desiring the mushy-gushy, romance-novel type of love, Elle explains that you need to focus on ridding yourself of your fear-based, push-pull energy. Once you can relieve yourself of fear-based energy, you will be able to create a space of love for your Twin Flame because love and fear cannot coexist. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to let go of unrealistic expectations and desires, so you can take the next step towards being with your Twin Flame. 

Quotes 

• “Romance is actually a fear-based thing. It has nothing to really do with love.” (03:07-03:10)

• “You can only physically be with your Twin Flame when there's actual love, and actual love means zero fear.” (04:06-04:13)

• “There is only one Twin Flame because the Twin Flame is you.” (05:36-05:39)

• “Everyone has/is a Twin Flame. You're not special for having a Twin Flame or being a Twin Flame.” (07:12-07:18)

• “The first step for anything has to begin with yourself. So that's why the Twin Flame journey is the first step of ascension. The Twin Flame journey is about you because the Twin Flame is you.” (08:51-09:02)

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You Don’t Want the Same Relationship You Once Had With Your Twin Flame

Do you ever yearn for the relationship you once had with your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, it's not you that wants that relationship, it's your fear-based energy. In today’s episode, Elle explains why you have to redefine your relationship with your Twin Flame in order to have a physical relationship with them.

According to Elle, it isn’t the relationship or even your Twin Flame that you really desire; it is the feelings you have associated with the Twin Flame. While it may seem like those feelings brought you happiness, Elle explains that those feelings come from your cyclical fear-based energy. The only way you can ever be with your Twin Flame is to shift into alignment with your soul because when you are aligned with yourself, you are aligned with your Twin Flame. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to let go of your past desires and align with your soul, so you can create a space of love that is able to unite you with your Twin Flame once and for all.

Quotes 

• “It's not a relationship with your Twin Flame or even your Twin Flame that you want. If you think about it, what you want are the feelings that you felt when you were with your Twin Flame.” (01:58-02:15)

• “You really cannot love anyone, including your Twin Flame, until you love yourself. Because loving yourself is loving your Twin Flame because your Twin Flame is you.” (07:46-07:54)

• “By shifting closer into love energy, you become love, and you become yourself.” (09:10-09:17)

• “You pull your Twin Flame closer into alignment with your soul as you shift closer into alignment with your soul. You are then in the space of love with each other, and the physical relationship can happen.” (11:51-12:04)

• “As long as you keep trying to get back that same relationship you had with your Twin Flame, you're just going to keep going from the highs to the lows, the fake good to the fake bad, the cycle will continue, it will not stop.” (18:08-18:23)

• “You can't possibly be the best you until you are being the true you.” (21:23-21:26)

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How to Stop Negative Feelings

Throughout the Twin Flame journey, there will be times where you feel down and out. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses how to stop feeling negative, so you can reunite with your Twin Flame.

According to Elle, whenever we judge things as good or bad, we are allowing our fear-based energy to be in control. Rather than succumbing to negative energy, Elle suggests figuring out what thought is causing you to feel bad and then changing your perspective. Once you understand that everything is meant to be, it will be easier to accept your circumstances and come to a neutral space. When we live without judgement, we can find peace and happiness. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth to learn how to stop negative feelings and trust in your soul, so you can stay on the path that will lead you towards everything you desire. 

Quotes 

• “If you think a thought is bad, you're going to feel bad.”(03:49-03:51)

• “Regarding anything related to our Twin Flame journey, we don’t want to judge our feelings as good or bad.” (05:49-05:57) 

• “Who are any of us to judge anything that we perceive as good or bad? That's not our job or our role. That's just our fear-based energy wanting to do that.” (07:27-07:07:39)

• “If you can figure out and determine what the main thought is that’s causing you to believe something is either good or bad, then you can turn that belief around.” (11:56-12:06)

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Your Twin Flame Isn’t Intentionally “Doing” Anything

Do you place blame on your Twin Flame for causing you hardships? Or give them praise for bringing you happiness when they are in your life? Even though this is a common response, host Elle Hari explains that believing the Twin Flame can dictate your emotions is giving them too much credit and ultimately damaging to the relationship.

As you are navigating the relationship between you and your Twin Flame, it can often feel like they are in control of how you feel. As much as their presence can make you feel euphoric, their absence can just as easily feel detrimental. Despite the highs and lows, Elle explains that it isn’t the Twin Flame that is controlling your emotions; it's the push-pull energy. And for this reason, you shouldn’t put pressure on your Twin Flame in any circumstance. The only way you can ever achieve a physical relationship with your Twin Flame is by learning how to balance the push-pull energy. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to neutralize the energetic field between you and your Twin Flame so you can experience a journey rooted in love instead of fear. 

Quotes 

• “It is the push-pull energy that is doing everything, not your Twin Flame.” (03:28-03:35)

• “When you balance out your push energy, you're automatically balancing out your Twin Flame’s pull energy because you are the same energetic field.” (04:33-04:37)

• “Your soul can bring you together physically as long as your energetic field is clear.” (05:12-05:19)

• “There is no need to give your Twin Flame so much credit in either direction. They're not making you feel like crap, and they are not making you feel good. They do not have that power over you. No one does, only you have that.” (09:39-09:49)

• “Focus on your energy. Your energy is their energy. If you balance your energy, then you can balance out both of you and you can come together in your cleared energetic fields.” (10:03-10:11)

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You Can Never Go Backwards On This Journey

Do you ever feel like you are regressing on your Twin Flame Journey? According to host Elle Hari, even though you may sometimes feel like you’re taking one step forward and two steps back, it is actually impossible to go backward on your journey. 

Since our minds are controlled by our fear-based, push-pull energy, it is natural to view things as linear, including our Twin Flame journey. But according to Elle, nothing is linear because you are always expanding and growing. While we are learning to balance our fear-based energies, it is common to experience extreme highs and lows. Elle explains that the lows are often interpreted as stepping backward, but in reality, that is just you working through your fear-based energy. Once you can simultaneously align your soul and balance your fear-based push energy, you won’t feel the highs and the lows. You will just feel neutral and your Twin Flame journey will feel back on track.

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about navigating through the cyclical effects of fear-based energy, so you can embrace every moment along your journey. 

Quotes 

• “By forward, I mean you're constantly, always expanding and growing and progressing.” (03:01-03:10)

• “You can only go forward, you can only grow, you can never go back.” (04:56-05:00)

• “Our minds, which are controlled by our fear-based, push-pull energy, have to think linearly. They think forward is only this way and backward is only that way because there are only two ways you can go one straight line, right? But that's not the way it is.” (05:48-06:10)

• “If you're aligning with your soul and balancing out your fear-based energy, then the highs and the lows of your fear-based energy become more balanced.” (10:45-10:59)

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Take Your Power Back And Feel Better Instantly!

Do you constantly yearn to rid yourself of negative thoughts and emotions regarding your Twin Flame? Then it’s time to let go of your fear-based energy once and for all. In today’s episode your host, Elle Hari, discusses how to control your emotions and take back your power.

In order to start taking control of your emotions, it is important to understand one basic human truth: only you are responsible for how you feel. Good or bad, Elle explains that nothing outside of yourself can cause you to feel any specific way because our emotions are derived from our thoughts. If you are feeling bad because you are not in a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, it is because you decided that it was bad. You must remember that nothing in the universe is good or bad; it just is. Even though it may be hard to comprehend why you can’t be with your Twin Flame at this very moment, Elle explains that it is because you still need the space to do energetic work. Next time you find yourself down and out about your Twin Flame, take a step back to change your thoughts, and it will change how you feel. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to diminish your fear-based energy, feel better instantly, and take back the power of your Twin Flame journey. 

Quotes 

• “No one and nothing outside of you can cause you to feel good or bad. You and you alone cause your own feelings, that's it. You are responsible for your feelings, no one and nothing else.” (01:54-02:13)

• “If you are attributing your feelings to anyone or anything outside of you, then that's playing the victim, and that is giving your power away.” (07:13-07:21)

• “Even if your fear-based addictive energy wants that drug of choice – the physical form of the Twin Flame – and it feels bad that it's not there, you need to understand that it’s not true and it's not a bad thing.” (09:39-09:58)

• “It's perfect that the Twin Flame isn't here right now because you need this space. Your soul and universe is working out this space to move you along your journey.” (10:07-10:19)

• “As soon as you can change your beliefs and thoughts, then you know that you have the power to control exactly how you feel, and no one else does. Then in that instance, you are empowered and you are free.” (12:58-13:11)

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