Your Fear-Based Energy… The Big Sellout

“Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth,” explains host Elle Hari, Founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®. Fear can manipulate much about how we view ourselves and our Twin Flame. Today, Elle explains that we must work past our fears to live authentically from the perception of our souls.

If we listen to our fear-based energy, we are tricked into believing that we must always be physically near our twin flames. The truth is we are our own Twin Flame because even if our souls are in different bodies, our energies are always connected. Ultimately, we must acknowledge that we are never really separate as we continue our journeys into loving ourselves.

Don’t let your fear-based energy lead to selling out your soul. Learn more about how fear affects your truth, the duality of energy, and why true love means loving yourself. 

Quotes 

• “The Twin Flame journey is all about loving yourself. The whole point of this journey is to learn to love yourself on the deepest level possible, and that level is your soul level.” (2:26-2:37 | Elle)

• “Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth.” (2:52-3:00 | Elle) 

• “The truth for every single being is that you and your Twin Flame are the same beings because you are your Twin Flame, so you are never separate. The illusion of separateness is fear-based energy.” (4:43-4:58 | Elle) 

• “The truth has no emotion with it. The truth is just truth, and that's your soul.” (11:53-11:58 | Elle)

• “You must put yourself first. It's not selfish to not sacrifice yourself. It's not selfish not to sell out. It's not selfish to not compromise anything about your truth. You have to love yourself first.” (14:20-14:34 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

The Paradox of Time

Do you ever feel stuck wondering how long your Twin Flame journey will take? In today’s episode, Host Elle Hari explains the paradox of time and how to move past your fixation on it.

As you move through your Twin Flame journey, it is completely normal to wonder how much time it is going to take for you to feel better and magnetize your Twin Flame because our fear-based energy tends to focus on these things. However, it is important to know that time only exists in the physical world. And when it comes to your soul, time does not exist because our souls are eternal. So in reality, we need to shift our focus from time and allow our journeys to progress naturally. And once we have let go of the concept of time, things will fall into place as they should.

In the end, time is another distraction set forth by our fear-based energy. Once we learn how to redirect our focus to balancing our energy, time won’t seem to matter anymore. 

Quotes 

• “As humans, we are hooked into the concept of time.” (02:22-02:26 | Elle)

• “Our fear-based push-energy is all about time. It loves hooking onto dates and counting down the time.” (02:51-03:00 | Elle)

• “Time only exists in the 3d physical world. Time does not exist in the realm of the soul. Why? Because the soul is eternal.” (03:43-03:52 | Elle)

• “Once you let go of your fixation on time, time then seems to move so much faster.” (12:25-12:30 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

The Twin Flame Demystified

Have you been feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame? Even though you might be working through your journey by aligning your soul and balancing your fear-based energy, it can be hard to not crave the physical form of your Twin Flame. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses the phenomenon of demystifying your Twin Flame.

It is important to remember that it is your fear-based energy that drives the addiction to the physical form of your Twin Flame. And at times, this addiction can feel so overwhelming that you tend to place your Twin Flame on a pedestal. But after you balance your fear-based energy, and focus on your real Twin Flame, which is your soul, you will realize that you don’t need the physical form of your Twin Flame after all. And as a result, you will magnetize them into your physical world without even thinking about it. 

Ultimately, having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame isn’t as important as you might think. Once you have balanced your energy and connected with your soul, the physical form of your Twin Flame won’t seem so necessary. 

Quotes 

• “Your push fear-based energy is addicted to the physical form of your Twin Flame and what that physical form is doing, thinking, saying, feeling. But remember that your physical body is not your Twin Flame, your Twin Flame is your soul.” (02:29-02:48 | Elle)

• “Because the fear-based push-energy’s drug of choice is the physical body of your Twin Flame, then it tends to put it on a pedestal.” (03:06-19 | Elle)

• “When you magnetize your Twin Flame back in because your energy is balanced enough for your soul to be able to do that, your focus on them will be diminished. And then you will wonder what the hype is about.” (05:38-05:54 | Elle) 

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Your Soul Knows

When anyone sets out on their Twin Flame journey, they are eager to know everything they can about their Twin Flame. And while this is a normal way to begin, Elle reminds listeners that it is actually our fear-based energy driving our motives to control everything. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari answers the question, what does it mean when someone says, “your soul knows everything?”

It is almost human instinct to believe that your mind can control every aspect of your life. And while you can manifest certain things to happen, it is not your mind doing this, it is your soul. In fact, your soul is what orchestrates everything in your life. And regardless of whether you’re the push or pull energy on your Twin Flame journey, it is still your fear-based energy trying to unintentionally control your mind. And once you balance your energy, you will allow your soul to do its job. 

Regardless of what you may think you know, your soul knows better. Learn more about removing the barriers within yourself so that you can find true love along your Twin Flame journey.

Quotes 

• “All of the need to know more, and to keep learning more about your Twin Flame is your fear-based energy. And your fear-based energy controls your mind.” (03:33-03:41 | Elle)

• “Your soul is doing and orchestrating everything in your life. It is in control.” (03:15-03:20 | Elle)

• “You're not able to manifest everything into your life because some of those things might be out of the realm of what your soul deems is for your highest good.” (06:20-06:30 | Elle)

• “You are your soul. Your soul is magnificent, it's omnipresent, it's limitless, it's boundless.” (06:37-06:40 | Elle)

• “The whole point of balancing, aligning, and moving through this journey is  really the unlearning of what you have learned in your mind.” (12:13-12:27 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Why It’s Necessary To Balance Your Energy

As we know from previous episodes, it’s important to align closer to your soul and be out of your mind. But to be with your Twin Flame physically, you must do one more thing. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why it is necessary to balance your energy. 

As Elle explains, fear-based energy controls our minds to determine whatever our Twin Flames are thinking, feeling, or doing as good or bad. And when we do this, we judge our thoughts as good or bad and it will ultimately determine how we feel. And while sometimes it can make us feel great, it is important to know that is still your fear-based energy controlling you. Fear-based energy is also addictive energy, so we are actually addicted to judging the physical world. When we finally balance our energy, we can achieve two things: find true inner peace and stop the push-pull dynamic that is keeping us and our Twin Flames apart. 

At the end of the day, if we want to join with our Twin Flames physically we must do three things: get out of our minds, align closer to our souls, and then balance our fear-based energy. And once we learn how to stop listening to our fear-based energy, we can live in true bliss whether we end up with our Twin Flames or not. 

Quotes 

• “Balancing your energy is neutralizing it. It’s taking your energy and instead of making it push, and making it be about fear, it's neutralizing it so there is no fear and no more push-energy.” (03:30-03:50 | Elle)

• “What the fear based energy wants to do is get in your mind, and focus and obsess on something. Of course, in this case, it's your Twin Flame. And so that's why we have obsessive thoughts about the Twin Flame journey because our fear-based energy is activated.” (05:24-05:42 | Elle)

• “If you're judging whatever you're thinking your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling as good, then you're going to feel good. But if you're thinking that whatever your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling is bad, then you're going to feel bad.” (06:34-06:45 | Elle)

• “Once the push-pull energy is neutralized, it clears out energetic fields so that your soul can bring you and your Twin Flame physically together.” (09:56-10:04 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Why It’s Necessary to Align With Your Soul

“That's what I mean by shifting into alignment with our soul. We do it on an energetic level by transmuting the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies of our soul into the love based energy of our soul from other dimensions. Taking that fear based component, polarized component, duality component out of it,” explains host Elle Hari, founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®, international bestselling author, ascension alchemist, teacher, and coach. In the season four opener, Elle shares the reasoning behind why the first step of any Twin Flame journey is to align with our souls. 

Due to the Universal Law of Correspondence, the energetic shift must happen within ourselves before we can even begin to look at anything outside of ourselves. The physical body exists in the third dimension, whereas the soul resides in the fifth dimension. We must transmute the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies into the love based energy of our soul in order to be in alignment. This is step one of the Twin Flame journey, because it allows for the layers to peel back and reveal our true selves. As we get closer to alignment, we learn how to love ourselves and begin resonating with an energy that is more in tune with our Twin Flame. 

To really love ourselves, we must first learn to accept each layer of ourselves without judgment.  As we get closer to alignment and move from fear based energy into love based energy, we will begin attracting others to us whose vibrations resonate with our own. That is why the very first step on the Twin Flame journey is to energetically shift ourselves to be more aligned with our true soul’s purpose.

Quotes 

• “We have to shift into ourselves first before we can even try dealing with outside of ourselves. And that's according to the universal law of correspondence, as within so without, so it has to happen within first.” (5:07-5:20 | Elle)

• “Why is it necessary to do this? Why do we even want to do this? So, this is really the crux of the whole thing. So, the ultimate purpose and point of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself, how to love yourself. And every shifting closer and closer into alignment with your soul, with your true self, with love, is loving yourself. It's like working through the layers of an onion.” (6:15-6:49 | Elle)

• “Your soul has a certain vibration and resonance. The only other person that you share the exact same resonance with is your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame has the exact same resonance as your soul.” (7:50-8:03 | Elle)

• “As you shift closer and closer, you go through those layers of that onion closer and closer to your true soul, you're going to encounter and unravel vibrations that are more in tune with your true soul’s passions, your true soul’s purpose, with people that resonate more with you.” (8:24-8:47 | Elle)

• “People that were in your life before that were toxic relationships or just weren't really meaningful relationships will, silently without drama, fade away, and new people will come in. And as this happens, you're also bringing in things that help you learn more about yourself. Learning about yourself and then accepting those things without judgment is how you love yourself.” (8:48-9:16 | Elle)

Links

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Past Lives/Karma Have NOTHING to Do With Your Current Twin Flame Journey

Do you ever worry that a past life or karma is disrupting the relationship between you and your Twin Flame? Contrary to popular belief, things like this actually have nothing to do with your journey at all. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari explains why past lives and karma have no effect on the Twin Flame journey. 

According to Elle, when we focus on our past lives we are focusing on the past—where our fear-based energy largely resides. Since the Twin Flame journey is centered around ridding ourselves of fear-based energy, it is important that we shift our focus to the present moment. At the end of the day, nothing from the physical world travels with us once we leave our physical bodies. So nothing you or your Twin Flame did, said, thought, or felt in a past life will matter in this life. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of shifting your focus from the past to the present so you can continue your journey towards ascension.

Quotes 

• “Whatever you or your Twin Flame said, did, or thought in any previous life is not going to matter.” (04:19-04:27)

• “In every lifetime, whatever happens in the physical world stays there. You don't bring your physical world stuff with you when you transition out of your physical body.” (04:38-04:47)

• “Your previous lives are in the past. And when you're focused on the past, guess what you're doing? You're feeding your fear-based energy.” (06:47-06:56)

• “Karma does not exist between you and your Twin Flame because you're the exact same energy source.” (09:10-09:14)

Links

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Normal Heartbreak or the Twin Flame Journey?

Will you ever let go of this heartbreak?  In today’s episode, Elle explains the difference between normal heartbreak and Twin Flame repulsion. 

The main difference between regular heartbreak and the pain you experience from your Twin Flame is that with time, you will get over a regular heartbreak. Since normal heartbreaks are caused by the thoughts in the mind, it is possible to truly overcome it. However, because your Twin Flame is the same soul, you can never get over them. The reason it feels so endlessly painful is because the twin flame journey has activated your core wound. While this can be agonizing at times, Elle explains that it is a necessary part of your journey to ascension.

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the distinctions between regular heartbreak and Twin Flame repulsion and why the pain of your Twin Flame journey is necessary for your progression towards ascension. 

Quotes 

• “When I say normal heartbreak, I mean heartbreak from a physical relationship that's not the catalyst to start you on a Twin Flame journey.” (03:04-03:12)

• “Despite your intentions, or your desires to want to move on and get over your Twin Flame, you can't because you are the same soul.” (06:25-06:36)

• “Yes, the Twin Flame journey feels painful, but that pain is just your wake up call.” (07:33-07:37)

• “For people on a Twin Flame journey, it is normal for them to feel physical pain and try to move on or cut the cord, but nothing will happen and it doesn’t work.” (08:42-08:48)

Links

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Self-Sabotage

According to host Elle Hari, anytime your Twin Flame journey isn’t appealing to you it is because you are self-sabotaging. In today’s episode, Elle discusses the phenomenon of self-sabotage and how to prevent it. 

While it sometimes may feel like your Twin Flame is in charge, the only person that plays any role in how you feel is you. Whenever your Twin Flame is pulling away from you, Elle explains it's because they are responding to your fear-based push energy. So in reality, to get your Twin Flame to stop pulling, you need to learn how to stop pushing.  

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of controlling your push energy and being true to yourself so you can enjoy the Twin Flame journey without self-sabotaging. 

Quotes 

• “If whatever is happening in your Twin Flame journey does not appeal to you, it doesn’t feel good, or it’s not what you desire, it's all because of self-sabotage.”  (01:30-01:46)

• “How the pullback manifests physically is that your Twin Flame is going to do exactly what it is that your push-energy is afraid of.” (03:39-03:50)

• “All physical energy, emotions, and feelings are all based on fear because they all stem from our beliefs and thoughts.” (05:21-05:26)

• “All you have to do is stop the push and your Twin Flame will stop the pull.” (07:22-07:25)

• “When you're still focusing your intention on anything that your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling, then you're just sabotaging everything that you want.” (07:29-07:40)

Links

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

What’s YOUR Twin Flame Story?

Whether you’ve known your Twin Flame your entire life, or you just met them a few weeks ago, every Twin Flame story is unique. In today’s episode, host Elle Hari discusses how your Twin Flame journey might look for you.

While everyone’s physical story of how they met their Twin Flame is unique, the reason we all are on this journey is the same- to take our first step towards ascension. And because of this, Elle explains that worrying about your physical experience with your Twin Flame is irrelevant. The best thing that you can do is look underneath all the physical distractions, and there you will find the truth. 

Tune into this week’s episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about what truly matters most about your Twin Flame story. 

Quotes 

• “Everyone's story is unique and individual. Not one Twin Flame couple story is the same.” (02:42-02:49)

• “Every Twin Flame story is different, valid, and beautiful. But they all have the same purpose, to start you on your journey to ascension.” (03:01-03:13)

• “Even though the way the Twin Flame story manifests physically for everyone is unique and individual,  the real story underneath it all is exactly the same for everyone.” (04:19-04:32)

• “Forget about how everything plays out physically because what’s underneath it all is the truth.” (08:07-08:15)

Links

Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io 

To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari 

Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/

Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15

Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm