Dating Other People While On The Twin Flame Journey

As you continue along your Twin Flame journey, dating may be the furthest thing from your mind. Then suddenly–bam!--someone comes along who sweeps you off of your feet and reminds you what it’s like to be in a normal relationship, reminds you that you absolutely can be physically attracted to another person and brings more balance to your life by taking the focus off of your Twin Flame for a while. 

 

Of course, if you are consciously and intentionally hoping that a new relationship will aid you in calling in your Twin Flame, this will backfire. This is fear-based push energy and will not help you on your journey at all. If you are going to enjoy a relationship while moving along your Twin Flame journey, you must completely separate it from the rest of the journey. 

 

Of course, if you feel you don’t want to date anyone at all, that’s also normal and perfectly fine. There is no right or wrong way to go about this. Trust that everything is working out perfectly and in its own divine time, just for you. 

 

Quotes 

• “Generally most people do not, can't even think about or fathom dating someone else until they've shifted closer in line with their soul. They're feeling balanced, they've magnetized in their twin flame, or maybe not, they haven't magnetized in their twin flame yet, but they're feeling great. They don't need anyone else not even thinking about that, they're not looking for that. And then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, Bam! Their soul magnetizes in someone that just knocks their socks off, just whirlwind sweeps them off their feet.” (5:21 | Elle)

• “We don't want to date anyone else with the hopes of taking our focus off of the twin flame, or getting the twin flame or balancing more or moving along our journey or anything else. We want to date someone else just because, in the moment, it feels good, and we're having fun with that person. Nothing to do with a twin flame, nothing to do with the twin flame journey at all. You cannot connect it at all, it has to be separate–totally, totally separate. Otherwise, that's the fear based energy connecting it and it's feeding your fear based push energy, which isn't helping your journey at all.” (9:55 | Elle)

• “You don't have to always be wanting that, you can be disinterested, you can go through long lulls of being disinterested in that. And that's perfect, too. However your journey is playing out, however you're feeling, there's nothing wrong with it. There's no right or wrong here.” (12:13 | Elle)

• “Regarding the twin flame journey, we don't want to believe or judge any of the thoughts as being good or bad. We just want to kind of neutralize those out, but feel the feelings.” (13:05 | Elle)

 

Links

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